Are you new to polyamory or ethical non-monogamy? Do you want clear, practical guidance without spending months sifting through endless books and forums? You’re in the right place.
Most newcomers are told to read 1,700+ pages of books before getting started—but I believe you can begin your journey with actionable steps right away.
Here is what I offer:

Fast Track Your Polyamory
A beginner-friendly, audio-based course covering the fundamentals of ethical non-monogamy including worksheets, prompts, activities and active feedback from me.
Starting from $67 per month or $250.

Fast Track For Therapists
For mental health professionals with no experience of polyamory or non-monogamy who want to learn the basics to better understand and support their clients.
Coming soon!

I'm Lola Phoenix.
I have spent the past 7 years writing about non-monogamy. I authored The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy and The Non-Monogamy Journal, and I host the Non-Monogamy Help podcast and advice column. My work has assisted thousands in navigating ethical non-monogamy with more clarity and understanding.
With years of experience providing advice to a variety of people through the challenges of polyamory, I offer a practical, judgment-free approach to understanding non-monogamous relationships. My insights have been featured on Savage Lovecast, Multiamory and other platforms.
My goal with my courses is to help those new to non-monogamy have actionable steps they can take to figuring out if non-monogamy works for them in a non-judgmental and approachable way.
I hope this helps and good luck.
Current Available Courses
I have done my best to provide a variety of payment plan options, but if you have multiple people to refer or wish to participate in the course as a large group, please get in touch.